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Unity candle
music will lend that little extra mood and feeling to this special
part of your wedding ceremony. The unity candle ceremony is an optional
but very popular part of many modern wedding ceremonies. The lighting
of the unity candle is sybolic of the joining together of the bride
and groom and on a larger scope the two families.The unity candle
ceremony uses two taper candles with a large pillar candle (the
unity candle) in the center. At the start of the wedding ceremony,
one of each of the families (usually the parents of the bride and
groom), will light the two taper candles.At the appropriate time
during the ceremony (usually after the vows) the minister will explain
the symbolic ritual to the guests and the bride and groom will then
use the two taper candles to light the larger untity candle together.
Some couples prefer to save the unity candle and to light it every
year on their anniversary. For outdoor and beach weddings the unity
candle ceremony can be exchanged for a sand cermony (link to http://www.beachwedding-guide.com/sandceremony.html)
which is similar in concept but uses coloured sand instead of candles.
Both the unity
candle and the sand ceremony can be enhanced by special unity candle
music and an explanation of the symbolism. Below are a few appropriate
unity candle songs:
Classical
and Instrumental Unity Candle Music:
Sleepers
Awake! - Bach
Gymnopedie
No. 1 - Satie
Wedding
Song - Kenny G
Greensleeves
- Various Artists
When
You Say You Love Me - Josh Groban (Piano Tribute)
Love
Theme from St Elmo's Fire - David Foster
Vocal
Unity Candle Music:
I
will be here - Steven Curtis Chapman
Give
me Forever (I Do) - John Tesh
Keeper
of the Stars - Tracy Byrd
One
Hand, One Heart - Bernstein (West Side Story)
When
You Say Nothing At All - Ronan Keating
Let
It Be - The Beatles
Everything
I Do - Bryan Adams
I
Do (Cherish You) - 98 degrees
How
Deep Is Your Love - Bee Gees
By
My Side - Ben Harper
Because
You Loved Me - Celine Dion
Feels
Like Home - Chantal Kreviazuk
After
All - Cher
Circle
of Life - Elton John
Beautiful
in My Eyes - Joshua Kadison
This
I Promise You - N Sync
Forever
and For Always - Shania Twain
From
this moment - Shania Twain and Bryan White
Unconditional
- Clay Davidson
I
Cross My Heart - George Strait
Me
and You - Kenny Chesney
You
Light Up My Life - Leanne Rimes
Grow
Old With Me - Various
Always
- Atlantic Starr
You're
My Latest, Greatest Inspiration - Teddy Pendergrass
Always
& Forever - Heatwave
All
My Life - K-Ci & JoJo
For
You - Kenny Lattimore
Amazing
Grace - Various
The
Prayer - Andrea Bocelli
When
You Say You Love Me - Josh Groban
Ave
Maria - Pavarotti
You
and Me - Rosie Thomas
Songbird
- Fleetwood Mac
Wonderful
World - Louis Armstrong
Covenant
Hymn - Gary Daigle
The
Wedding Song - Noel Paul Stookey
This
Little Light of Mine - Various
I
Cross My Heart - George Strait
5 Tips in using
Unity Candle Music:
1. Listen to
the lyrics of some of the unity candle songs above and pick one
that closely relates you the story of the two of you and how you
feel about each other.
2. If it is
your second marriage or you already have children together, you
may want to include them in the unity candle ceremony. You can do
so by giving them their own little candles and lighting them with
your own. The family together then light the unity candle. When
opting for this version of the ceremony think of songs with appropriate
words, perhaps Circle
of Life by Elton John ,
Wonderful
World by Louis Armstrong
or even the little gospel song This
Little Light of Mine .
3. Do rehearse
your this part of your ceremony with the unity candle music during your ceremony rehearsal.
This helps everyone (especially if you are including children) to
feel confident in what they have to do on the day.
4. When you
play your unity candle music during the rehearsal you can also estimate
how long it will take you to complete the ceremony. You can then
decide on a place in the song where it can be faded out or cut short
(if you are having it sung by someone). It can become awkward to
stand around and wait for the song to finish if you have chosen
one that is rather long. If you are concerned about doing this then
opt for one of the instrumental versions above. They can be very
easily faded out.
5. You also
need to decide when during your Unity Candle Ceremony do you want
to start the music. If you have chosen a beautiful instrumental
piece, then you can start it softly in the background while the
officiant explains the sybolism. You can then have it turned up
slightly when the minister is finished and you silently light the
unity candle. If you have chosen a song with vocals then start it
after the officiant has done his/her part. You don't want the song
to compete with what he/she has to say.
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